08/06/2026
From David: The first time I met Casey, I literally couldn’t look at her, for fear that I was staring with my jaw wide open. Not in any sort of lustful way, but with astonishment. She was, as I put it later, “the most beautiful creature in the multiverse.” I was completely struck that the creatorship produced this marvel of beauty that was bouncing around the room, laughing and now standing before me, entering a costume contest with her friend Mandolin.
I was self conscious that I was staring at her, so I mainly kept my eyes down to the floor or tried to distract myself by checking in on staff, entertainers, and event attendees. It was incomprehensible to me how she could be so wonderously put together in perfect proportions, thoughtful, playful and elegantly costumed. Like some fictional character that had come straight out of a classic movie. (Likely one featuring Audrey Hepburn.)
I was too nervous to talk to her at first, other than welcoming her and sharing some general information about the brewery and the costume contest, but our friend Mandolin knew that we had to meet for some in-depth conversations about the non-profit they founded, empowering youth through an immersive experience in growing and preparing food to serve the community. Well, that broke the ice pretty well! Those of you that have known me through the decades, know that my happy places are in the garden, farmers markets, and in experiential learning environments.
(The famous online date at the brewery would come just before my workshop with them.)
That conversation paved the way for me to participate in the mission these two women founded, while spending more time getting to know Casey as a friend and collaborator — spreading compost, planting seeds, leading workshops, and supporting fundraising efforts to launch a free youth summer camp.
It was such a wonderful way to get to know Casey platonically, forming a relationship grounded in friendship, stewardship and purpose. I couldn’t be more proud of how our lives have grown together. Our relationship was truly cultivated in the garden.